

Why “the spark” is a myth (but you’ll find love anyway) How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews) How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love) How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you) What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn’t)
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What’s holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern) This “simple-to-use guide” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You have to actually change your behavior.

But awareness on its own doesn’t lead to results.

We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.ĭrawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives-they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives-they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it A “must-read” ( The Washington Post) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams. A “must-read” ( The Washington Post) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.
